Being successful in biz or anything is a 1% thing. And to be in that 1% you have to understand what those 1% of people are doing and you have to do the same.
The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.
So decide whatever it is you want to be and go become it.
Pick the house you want to live in.
Pick the car you want to drive.
Hard work is hard but so is doing nothing and living a terrible life. Do your family a favor and work hard so they don’t have to. Someone has to lift the family curse might as well be you.