Men are not complicated. He’s not investing in you because you’re not worth it to him. He’s not chasing you because he doesn’t want you, he’s still entertaining you because you let him. He’s not giving you what you want because he’s not afraid to lose you. Stop making excuses
Idk what autistic girl needs to hear this but you're not in love with him. Youre just addicted to him because he made you feel so desired it gave you a safe space to be yourself. you're not in love with him you're in love with BEING YOU. You're in love with being SEEN.
The older you get, the more you realize luck is mostly exposure. If you sit in the same place, have the same routine, talking to the same people, nothing new really happens. You have to engage the world to win. Travel more. Talk to people.
I just read something that said “ Having good friends keeps from you from dating out of boredom. A lot of people don’t need partners - they need a social life.” And YEAH!
I saw a girl say that when she feels stuck, she imagines she's 85 years old and gets one chance to come back to her younger self for one day, suddenly, everything feels like magic again, the walk, the music, the sunlight, live everyday like that.
wow. im doing this DAILY now.
I’m dropping a huge truth bomb and going to sleep:
For some men, losing an incredible woman is a relief—because now they can keep being mediocre without the pressure to become better.