i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
I don't cut people off for one mistake. I cut people off for patterns, disrespect, and lack of accountability. By the time I'm done, I've already given more chances than you deserved.
Facts
your soulmate is someone who’s committed to working things out with you & doesn’t see breaking up as an option. they’re willing to have difficult conversations & are always devoted to finding solutions that make the both of you feel secure, reassured, & happy in your relationship