I fell in love with this scripture:
âThere will come a time when your tears will fall, not because of your troubles, but because God has answered your prayers.â
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People from all over the world visit Benin, enjoy an amazing experience, and canât wait to return. But the moment our Nigerian âbrothersâ arrived I knew negativity would follow. Thereâs no need to downgrade your neighbour just because youâre struggling to shine yourself. đź
In a few years, there will be a significant mental/intellectual gap between people who ask AI to write for them, and people who write and tell AI to refine it for them.
Nancy Pelosi: âI think Hillary Clinton was the most qualified person of that generation. More qualified than her husband, more qualified than George W. Bush, more qualified than Barack Obama. Certainly more qualified than the creature that is there nowâ
The information was in school books for reading, so what is the "Una no dey ever read" ?
The moment y'all come across something new, you pass the knowledge in the most degrading manner to feed your weak ego.
They still do and if Withney was still here she'll not be treated so kindly. We see how they treat the ones still here when the numbers or voice isn't what it used to be.
Brother,
First, thank you for being honest.
Most men will never say what you just said out loud. They will pretend, they will mask it with pride, they will hide behind âIâm fine.â
But you didnât, and that already tells me something about you, you still want better.
Contrary to public opinion, at 33, you are not late, you are not finished, you are not behind in life.
You are in a season of confusion and confusion is not failure. It is a sign that your old path has ended and you havenât defined the new one yet.
You were laid off, thatâs very painful. Especially when youâve not done anything else in 3 years. After a while, it stops being about money and starts affecting your confidence.
You begin to question your value. You start asking, âWhat am I even good at?â
But I want you to understand this, Three years without a job does not erase your ability. It only means your strategy needs upgrading.
Now letâs talk practically.
You have a B.A. degree, you have customer support experience.
That means you already have transferable skills: communication, problem solving, handling difficult people, systems usage, emotional intelligence.
Those are not small things.
But selling your house to chase a certificate?
Slow down.
When you feel lost, big irreversible decisions feel like action. But not all action is wisdom.
A house even a modest one is stability, security and leverage.
Selling an asset to fund uncertainty should only happen after research, validation, and a clear return path. It shouldnât happen due to desperation.
Aviation customer support or ticketing is not a bad idea. But before you sell anything:
1. Research actual job demand.
2. Talk to people already in the field.
3. Understand salary range and entry barriers.
4. Confirm how many graduates of that certification are actually employed.
Information reduces emotional decisions.
You are confused currently because you have no structured direction.
Many men at 30+ were raised to figure it out alone. They had no mentorship, roadmap or direction.
But direction is built, not magically found.
Instead of selling your house immediately, I would advise you to do this instead
1. Check your existing skills.
2. Identify industries that value customer experience (tech, fintech, logistics, telecom, remote support).
3. Consider remote global customer support roles, they exist.
4. Build skills strategically (short, affordable certifications first).
5. Build a structured 6 month job strategy.
Also, being single at 33 is not a failure. Donât let societal timelines pressure you into thinking you are behind. A man who builds himself properly will build a stable family later.
At 33, you are not at the end. You are at the redesign stage. And redesigns, when done properly, create stronger structures than the original.
Stand up slowly, think clearly and move wisely.
You still have time.
Beyonceâs names wasnât mentioned one time in them files, nor has she ever had any allegation towards herâŠ. Yet any chance yall get yall drag her more then ACTUAL MEN whoâve been implicated and even proven guilty of wrong doing. That is strange
Yall are acting crazy because she took a picture with a burger like bffr đđđ
Remembering the Late Seun Oluwabimpe Harvey aka Goldie, Naija's queen of pop gave us this hit in 2012
She was signed to Kennis Music & was tipped to become one of the biggest Pop exports out of Nigeria until she passed away on Valentine's day in 2013
Rest in Power Goldie đïž