When it comes to dating, I promise you, women are the logical gender. Men are the emotional ones. Iβll explain.
Because of our fragile egos, we have somehow convinced ourselves that we are the logical gender while women are the emotional ones, but in reality, it is the other way around.
This is why I have been preaching to those who care to listen to learn the dating game from women, to learn how they approach heterosexual relationships, or even platonic relationships with men.
Do you know that it is men who marry for love the most? Yes. Contrary to what you believe, love is not the number one priority when most women are considering marriage or relationships. They KNOW that love is not enough, and they already keep that in mind.
No woman is building with you if she doesnβt see potential. Do you know that women give their men a timeline to make it in their heads? Like, between now and the next two years, if you donβt make it, sheβll leave you. That kind of timeline.
Have you seen or heard women giving their fellow women relationship advice? If she tells her homegirls sheβs talking to a new guy, the first question is not whether she loves him. It is, βDoes he have money?β Because they care more about financial security than love. They know love is not enough because, truly, na love you go chop? Logical.
A typical example is the way the Nollywood character Mama G used to advise her daughters and daughters-in-law in movies back then. It reflects how most Nigerian mothers think. Theyβll always advise them to choose the man who can take care of them financially over the one who loves them more but is still building his life.
Logic doesnβt care about feelings. This is why, when a woman wants to leave you, sheβll put emotions aside, both hers and yours. Sheβll leave because she believes thatβs the best thing for her to do.
A woman could be at her lowest, but sheβll still break up with you if youβre managing and trying to figure life out for both yourself and her. Sheβll leave because she genuinely thinks she deserves better.
It is men who are emotional. A man will be tired of a relationship with a woman, and instead of outrightly breaking up with her, heβll begin to frustrate her until she leaves on her own. But that is cowardice. That is because men, most of them, donβt have the balls women do.
You could be going through the worst phase of your life, and your babe will break up with you at that moment simply because she canβt tolerate you anymore.
How you handle it is between you and your God. Not her business.
When it comes to relationships, women are not emotional like we think. They are very logical. And the best way to enjoy dating is simply by mirroring them. Date like a woman and I promise you, youβll enjoy dating and women generally.
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