A lot of men say they want a “real woman” until they get one. A real woman doesn’t just love you she sees you. Your inconsistency. Your avoidance. Your truth. And instead of stepping up, you start pulling back because being seen feels like pressure when you’re not ready to grow. So it was never that she was “too much” she just held up a mirror you weren’t ready to face.
A cheating man is bad enough.
But you know what's even worse?
A man who pretends to be good but in reality is a pathological liar, lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.
Nothing is sexier than a man who is CONSISTENT. Like a man who consistently does nice things for you without asking, consistently admits his feelings, shows affection & communicates. Consistently changes his ways to keep you, consistently makes you feel Loved, seen & heard. >>
Staying in a relationship where progress never happens after deep discussions & you pour your heart out repeatedly.
It’s falling on deaf ears. Be just as much of a leaver as you are a lover.