Trust me... the moment you stop forcing it, you'll see their true intentions. If they step up, they care. If they disappear, they never gave a f*ck about you.
Avoidants will never compliment you. You can plan the perfect date, show up looking stunning, and be genuinely excited to see them……yet they ignore you while strangers stop to compliment you. Leaving you more insecure than before.
You cannot claim to have been on Maraga's team and not understand what he means when he says he is committed to rule of law. That's literally his campaign platform. A crime has been committed? Follow due process. That's it.
I serve as co-chair in David Maraga's political committee, where Shakira served (quite well actually) as the secretary until November last year when she resigned.
I'll do a thread to explain my experience of what transpired.
Avoidants only reach full emotional capacity and feel truly safe when their partner is physically or emotionally 50 miles away. That’s how bad the trauma is.
act like they died.
stop checking.
stop rereading.
stop waiting for a version of them that only existed in your head.
grieve them properly and keep going.
Never dating someone with an avoidant attachment style ever again.
They'll destroy you to the point of questioning if everything in the relationship was even real in the first place?