having to bite your tongue and laugh along while your friends show each other the exact thing youโre into and go โcan you believe thereโs a whole community of weirdos who are into this shit?โ is a canonical pervert experience
Idk how to phrase this in a way that makes sense but porn/erotica is not supposed to represent how sex literally is in reality itโs supposed to represent how sex FEELS people who expect realism from it are missing the point