ballroom was created as a safe space for queer black and brown people and the fact that these white people are calling it a drag show simply is showing that gatekeeping is working
If you have to consistently fight for someone to see your worth/to treat you the way you deserve, it does not matter how much they love you, don’t settle. There is always a love that will be ready. To honor, to cherish and to value you in the ways you’ve always dreamed.