@johnnyxbrown Need someone to explain how a $10 meal is not expensive? If youโre eating 3 meals a day and you eat for 30 days a monthโฆ.thatโs a $900 grocery billโฆ.for 1 person!
@BenIannacchione @EricGuthrie07 You said actualization of full potential. Its more appropriate for you to simply say, actualization of untapped potential, not full potential. Actualization of potential is growth and yes, growth/improvement is still an outcome. Growth is the outcome and should be the aim.
@BenIannacchione @EricGuthrie07 If our purpose is not to facilitate change, then it is purposeless and senseless. If it is to exact change, we should acknowledge that change is indeed an outcome. So it is about the outcome.
@BenIannacchione @EricGuthrie07 Change is an outcome. The purpose of a coach crafting an exposure to difficulty is to facilitate change, positive change. Positive change is a victory. Victory is an outcome.
@BenIannacchione @EricGuthrie07 In that scenario its not about exposing people to difficulty but exposing them to victory, a victory achieved due to them being properly prepared both by themselves and the community surrounding them others. Reinforcing their self-efficacy and the importance of community.
@BenIannacchione @EricGuthrie07 All of that's good. I agree that there is space to give people difficult things because you know that you are going to also give them the tools that they need to succeed and to overcome the challenge.
@EricGuthrie07 @BenIannacchione We attribute poor performance in the face of difficulty to a lack of exposure to difficulty itself. It's not true though, that you just passively and magically develop the skills necessary for handling difficulty just by being exposed to difficulty. There should be a method.
@EricGuthrie07 @BenIannacchione I think an over preoccupation with doing "hard things" can be due to our assumption that people don't have enough practice grappling with "hard things". We are overconfident that we know their private lives so well. So our "love" is to give them the hard things.
@ibramxk@ibramxk They don't really believe in being "colorblind" . They LOVE seeing in color and they want ALL of us to see it too. Or else they must abandon their reports of "Black on black crime", "black family" etc. They LOVE seeing color, when "color" is starring as the villain...