Let’s talk abt self concept being a mirror.
So if someone is disrespecting you, and you continue to allow it to happen, hoping it will change and feeling powerless… fighting against it, in turmoil over it everyday and highly reactive to it… then you are assuming a self concept that is “I am disrespected”.
If you are in a self concept like “I am respected” you will have no problem removing yourself, losing a person and overall just not caring to engage in any highly reactive form because it would be in contradiction to your identity to do that. Therefore the person has to either leave or change because they will not be able to engage with you that way…Or you’re able to form a dynamic where respect is equally given and exchanged.
Whatever you allow to continually show up in your life, whatever you internally struggle with and get stuck in patterns of comes down to “I am”. That other person still has to take responsibility for what they’re doing, but it’s important to look at “why” that dynamic formed in the first place.
That is why self concept is so important. What you allow into your life is a manifestation of your self concept, what you continue to entertain is a manifestation of your self concept.
Here’s a friendly and loving reminder that any sort of negative obsession or desperation is not going to work in your favor and you need to be extremely honest with yourself about it and change it internally. Stop lying to yourself and recognize your value. Nobody deserves to occupy your awareness or control your happiness to the degree where you cannot function or have a stable life without them. Change that asap.
📩 ♡ The Message Of The Day - 1111 - “You are quantum leaping into your vision as your higher self confirms your manifestation is coming. You can trust your next signs & synchronicities, chosen one.”
u cried? u spiraled? u doubted? now take a moment to realize u're the one in power and nothing or nobody can get in ur way unless YOU let it happen. you have the full power here!
The subconscious receives impressions only through the feelings of man and, in a way known only to itself, gives these impressions form and expression.
We not worried about ur past, anybody talking about ur past is jealous of ur future. We not going back to the past, repeating it, fearing it or judging ourselves for it. You good. YOU GOOD. And if something pops up, you know how to handle it. Trust that.