“It is really tough when others bad decisions put your life in turmoil, but we do have the right to decide how we will deal with their poor decisions.” -words from the strongest woman I know💛🌙
People will ALWAYS have something smart to say. Even though, you’re doing what’s best for your family! Sorry didn’t think about how it would make you feel.
Find someone who will love the depressed you, happy you, growing you, worst you, and indecisive you. Without calling you crazy or toxic for not being able to understand you
"your trauma made you stonger" no. my trauma made me traumatized, it made me weak, gave me sleepless nights, and memory loss. it gave me feelings i never wanted.. so no, my trauma didn't made me stronger.
@_milf_vibes_ When deciding my daughters name I asked my mom what my dad would’ve named his son if he had one (3 girls😂) & she said Brooks so I named my daughter Brooke Lynn
Someone I know who lost their mama young too told me even though Brooke heavily remembers her now she probably won’t later on in life & my heart broke all over again.
I’m fucking sick & tired of having extremely vivid dreams that my mom is alive & well like she was the week before she passed & I wake up and have to remind myself every morning of my reality. I just don’t want this life. 🥺😤😩😭💔
THINGS I’M NO LONGER APOLOGIZING FOR:
* My feelings
* Having boundaries
* Saying NO to something I’m not really interested in doing
* Not answering the phone when I can’t or don’t feel like it
* Taking a break
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