Not to be OA but this quote has saved me multiple times before (and still does) lol literally changed me and gave me a purpose, I’m not even exaggerating
ten years as an antiquarian, hearing nothing but "my relative kept these untouched in a box their whole life but they died, and I don't want this stuff" has radicalized me. annotate the books. use the china. wear the clothes until they wear out. your life should not be a museum