people will really think they aren’t evil or harmful as long as they aren’t violent/volatile. It doesn’t always take violence to cause harm and more people need to get that.
NOBODY likes you when you're depressed. Plain and simple. We can talk all day about MENTAL HEALTH and how important it is but the moment you are depressed, people really start to distance themselves.
They see you as NEGATIVE, a BURDEN, and someone too HEAVY to handle.
please if you are no longer interested in someone let them know. slowly distancing yourself, ignoring messages, and giving halfhearted responses hurts them more than simply being honest.
“But you survived” I disassociate, like a lot. My heart drops when someone raises their voice. I shut down very easily. And I'm far too observant. I always feel like a burden. I isolate often. But yeah, sure, I guess I survived.
Bc nobody wants to deal with people when they’re depressed. People will get sick of you, and quickly, and before you know it you’re losing people bc you’re ’negative’ and ‘draining’. Best kept to yourself if you can keep yourself safe.
one of the worst autistic experiences is finding out someone built a case against you in silence and never gave you one clear chance to understand or fix it.
You can’t “hate” or be “scared” of conflict and confrontation but discuss it and talk shit with everyone but the person you have an issue with. That would make you pussy. Glad we have that understood!
Nobody likes you when you're depressed.
Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you are depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.
You cannot repair a relationship with someone who insists the real problem is always your reaction, never their behavior.
They focus on how you spoke, how loud you got, or how emotional you became, while completely ignoring the disrespect, neglect, or hurtful actions that caused your response in the first place. This pattern turns every conflict into your fault. It blocks any chance of genuine healing. Real progress in a relationship requires accountability from both sides.
I definitely don’t think people talk enough about just how MEAN depression makes you. When everything feels pointless and stupid and awful and overwhelming, when you’re prepared to expect the worst from people, you hate everyone and everything so much