I hate when I unfollow somebody & remove them , then they follow me again . Shit is annoying. Especially when I don’t like the shit they post . Ain’t nobody tryna see that shit. Catch a clue & get tf on 🙄
I rlly appreciate ppl who know that it is absolutely ok to just shut the f*** up sometimes. I love those ppl who can just be in your presence while enjoying good vibes, good food, good music, peace & quiet. Is that bad ? Or am I slowly but surely morphing into Al Bundy?
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Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
A man with a high level of unhealed trauma & rigid defense mechanisms can only survive in a relationship where he is allowed to dominate & be coddled. The second you firmly establish that you are an equal, independent, self-sufficient woman who will not enable his pathology, you become incompatible with his disorder. The relationship will end, it is inevitable.
I’m an elder millennial. I’m never letting go of my emotional support denim jacket, gold hoop earrings, boomerang drink videos, 90s R&B, side parts, and peace signs in my pics. Fight me.
Being able to call and depend on a man is a flex. I mean yes I can absolutely handle things on my own but just knowing my life is a little easier because I'm supported and someone always has my back is top tier to me🥺
@YBR_TV@iamChigoo I hear it’s hard out here for all of us. I’m not here to bash others, I’d rather teach. We all need to broaden our horizons & find our tribes. Meanwhile imagine growing from a real DragonBall kid into the lady that actually takes accountability & see this floating the net 😩🤦🏾♀️🤣
Tolerating a man always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due
I run into the strangest shit. I don’t mind open conversations at all. We can have sexual conversations regarding our preferences prior to furthering things too cause I hate surprises. But if you’re more invested in my ass than some vagina, baby it’s best you go find you a man.
you lose your libido, you don’t like their natural scent, you can’t fall asleep easily next to them, you experience digestive issues because of the tension/ anxiety you hold in your gut, you feel drained after interacting, you feel relieved when they leave, you get skin issues
@TaraBull As a woman who loves a good decompressing session in the car, some of us enjoy our own company. Nothing wrong w/ it. Now if this is a reaction from trust issues or infidelity in the past, sis needs to let him go. No need in babysitting a grown man. Her voice is trash too tho 🥴🤣
i have no desire to be rich so i can buy a rolex or a lamborghini.
i want to be rich so i can control my time and go to the gym at 3pm on a monday.
sit at a cafe and relax for an hour on a rainy afternoon.
so i can cook meals at home with fresh ingredients.
spend on my family and friends without worrying about a budget.
that's my idea of a rich life, not the fake consumerist idea shoved down my throat.