I DONT play the victim. I’ll tell you straight up why I became the villain and why somebody got the reaction they got. I believe in taking accountability for my reactions to people’s actions. And I don’t mind showing someone real quick that they need to find somebody else to play with. I don’t start problems, but I will finish them.
Liars and narcissists love acting like everyone else is the problem while they swear they did nothing wrong. Not me. I’ll tell you exactly what I did, why I did it, and how it happened.
Being depressed as someone who has experienced depression since like 10 years old doesn’t really affect my day anymore. It’s just like fuuuckkk I’m really lazy and gay today
My 5 year old son is autistic and loves playing with friends, but the second he's done, he's done. The other night we had a bunch of friends over and he randomly stands up and says "alright, thanks for coming guys, can you go home now?" 😭
Avoidants be like:
I'm going to pursue you relentlessly, build a connection, and convince you we're headed somewhere real. Then the second i'm expected to take accountability for my actions, communicate like an adult, or face conflict, i'm going to disappear because avoiding my problems is easier than confronting them. After that, I'll just tell everyone we 'grew apart' or that 'things just didn't work out' because i'm a fucking coward.