If you’re not ready to be soft-hearted as a guy, I don’t see why you should be in a relationship with a lover girl.
Women cry like it’s a sport. She could be looking for something in the house, not find it, and suddenly start crying.
How are you going to comfort her with your cold heart?
You can love someone with every fiber of your being and still have completely incompatible nervous systems, conflicting core values, or mismatched attachment styles that will inevitably tear your life apart if you stay.
The obsession with wanting people to regret losing you is insane. You’re not that special. People lose people every day and keep living. Heal from the ego that needs to be missed, chased, or mourned to feel valuable. Your job is not to become somebody’s punishment. Your job is to grow, move on, and build a life so full that their regret is no longer your concern.
please get addicted to thinking that you always get whatever tf you want. that you are THE chosen one and the luckiest person on earth. get used to thinking in YOUR DAMN FAVOR ♡
clearing my schedule so I can read the Pope's 42,000 word manifesto on AI and the inherent dignity of man so I can continue to be everyone's designated Catholic friend, I'll keep you all posted.
i was shocked to discover that there are some people who actually can't visualize images when reading a book coz for me, an entire movie is playing out in my head with the perfect cast
• consideration.
• willing to compromise.
• random thoughtfulness, check-ins, and availability
• loving you in the language you truly want and understand
• communication and attention
• excitement, willingness, and provisions.
• offering emotional safety.
Ask your partner how they slept, how their day was, about work, what's on their mind, why they've been quiet, why they are being sensitive, what they'd like to eat, and where they'd like to go; make it a habit. Never let them feel unseen, unheard, or ignored.
all relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. repeated behavior isn’t a mistake, it’s a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change.
Stop tolerating hot and cold behavior. Warm today, distant tomorrow, no reason, no explanation. That's not a mood, that's control. You deserve consistency, not confusion. Walk away from people who can't decide if they want you.
I love a man that genuinely fw me all day, every day like checking in, calling, texting, facetime, pulling up… I can handle my own, but it’s something special about a man who makes you feel wanted & thought about ♡︎
Everyone shut up I just learned a new word:
Eremition
(eh-ruh-mish-un)
The act of gradually fading from the lives of others, not out of malice, but a desire for solitude or renewal.