1. Mine is being poor!
2. Depending on a man for survival
3. Being a single married woman
4. Being poor
5. Begging a man money to buy pad
6. Giving up my education/goals for love
7. Getting pregnant for a fool
8. Being poor
9. Being poor
10. Marrying a fool
11. Being poor
I hope that when you look back on your life, you have empathy for the well-intentioned version of yourself that didn’t always get things right. I hope you give yourself credit for trying, persisting, and showing up—even when things didn’t go as planned.
I truly think life is just about returning back to yourself. There will be sooooo many times you’ll get lost in the world (motions of life) and it’s your mission to find your way back to yourself everytime.
A lot of you were never taught healthy communication. You were brought up to scold another, never look for a solution, never speak with kindness and compassion when a mistake was made that can be worked on.
You feel any criticism on your actions is a personal attack because you were taught to identify with your actions. That is why you deflect when it is not your turn to speak. That is why accountability eludes you.
And that is why some people don’t want to deal with you.
Going out & getting lit with your lover is top tier…. Y’all both looking good , feeling good , having pure fun & enjoying each other's presence....