Being close to someone isn't just about sleeping together always.
It should be about having that one man you can text late at night when something is bothering you, even when you don't know how to explain what you are feeling.
It should be about choosing to give him your attention even when other men are trying to get it.
It's thinking about him while you're busy with other things and finding yourself wanting to tell him every little thing that happens during your day.
Lastly, it should be about knowing that out of all the people you could talk to, he's still the person you want to tell everything to.