Let me say something.
And this is for young girls.
It's not easy to remain a virgin or stay celibate if you're not a virgin.
Because men will always chase you for sex.
And men know this.
Hence, they do not mind marrying a non-virgin woman.
However, there is one major advantage you may have if you're able to keep your virginity for your husband alone.
Because he knows your sexual history, you may not be silently judged by him in a negative way, if getting pregnant for your first child becomes prolonged in your marriage.
He would be very patient and understanding, and he may even agree that both of you should first try adoption pending when God blesses your womb.
Or he would be willing to spend heavily to make sure that both of you succeed in bringing forth a child or children.
And he won't regret it if all his monies spent didn't yield any positive result.
So, please be careful with your sexual life and avoid doing dangerous abortions that may have a lasting negative impact on your fertility health.
I know that many of you enjoy sex without condoms. But the risks of contracting damaging STDs are there.
Enjoy your preeq but protect your womb.
Improve on your personal hygiene too.
It's not easy for couples who are still TTC. If it happens that the problem is yours and your husband didn't meet you as a virgin, he may be low-key questioning your sexual history and getting frustrated as the wait stretches.
For men,
Infertility isn't only a women problem.
These days, young men are experiencing low sperm counts due to unhealthy lifestyles.
Please ensure that you go get tested before you marry a wife.
So that you don't frustrate your wife.
Because most of the time, the society always assumes that the problem is from the woman.
End.
My friend did everything right, beautiful, kind, emotionally available and still got left by every man she dated.
Turns out the problem wasn’t her. It was her aunt.
For years I’ve been comforting her through one failed relationship after another. She’s the kind of woman who shows up fully, communicates, supports her partner… yet they always walked out. She started believing she was simply unlovable.
She was looking at the wrong villain the entire time.
The real destruction didn’t happen in her dating life. It happened years earlier, inside her own family home, carried out by a desperate, envious aunt.
The aunt couldn’t stand watching my friend thrive while her own daughter struggled.
So she took something deeply personal, my friend’s pants and used them in a ritúal.
The price? My friend’s ability to ever settle down and find lasting love.
The reward? A guaranteed marriage for the aunt’s daughter.
The ritual worked perfectly. The cousin walked down the aisle. My friend stood on the sidelines, smiling for photos, completely unaware that her own romantic destiny had been the silent currency for that wedding ring.
Now people look at her being single at her age and judge her like she’s the problem. But she’s done blaming herself. She’s finally directing the blame where it belongs: at the woman in her own family who decided that for her child to win, my friend had to lose everything.
I’m honestly speechless. How do you even begin to heal once you discover a close family member intentionally sabotaged your entire love life out of envy?
Have you guys ever witnessed family jealousy this dark and calculated?
A retired sex therapist said:
"The couples having the best sex after 15 years together all share these eight habits in common."
They have nothing to do with positions, looks, or hormones.
Here are the 8 habits....
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