THEY understand ACCOUNTABILITY perfectly fine.
THEY just seem to FORGET WHAT it means when the person DEMANDING it is a MAN.
Have you ever watched two women argue?
Female friends. Coworkers. Sisters. Complete strangers.
HAVE YOU EVER HEARD them SAY TO ANOTHER:
“Don’t be mad at her. She’s on her period.”
“Let her disrespect you. It’s her hormones.”
“She’s stressed. Just accept her attitude.”
“She’s experiencing postpartum depression. Don’t hold her accountable.”
NO. YOU KNOW WHY?
Because when women are dealing with other women, suddenly everybody remembers that being emotional doesn’t give you permission to treat people like garbage.
“BITCH, WATCH YOUR MOUTH!”
“WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING TO?”
“FIX YOUR ATTITUDE!”
Nobody wants to hear excuses about HORMONES.
Nobody is checking her menstrual calendar before deciding whether the disrespect was ACCEPTABLE.
BUT LET THAT SAME WOMAN DISRESPECT A MAN.
Suddenly, it’s a medical conference.
“It’s her hormones.”
“It’s her period.”
“She’s overwhelmed.”
“She’s stressed.”
“She’s emotional.”
“You need to understand what women go through.”
OH, SO WHEN ITS MEN, WE NEED A BIOLOGY DEGREE TO RECOGNIZE DISRESPECT? But…
When she insults another woman, she’s being disrespectful.
When she insults a man, she’s experiencing hormonal changes.
When she screams at another woman, she needs to control herself.
When she screams at her husband, he needs to control his reaction.
When another woman refuses to tolerate her attitude, she’s standing up for herself.
BUT WHEN A MAN REFUSES TO TOLERATE IT, HE’S SUDDENLY EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE.
Do you see how ridiculous that sounds?
And here’s another interesting observation.
They love saying, “A REAL MAN WOULD NEVER HIT A WOMAN.”
Fair enough. Men shouldn’t hit women.
BUT NOTICE HOW QUICKLY THAT ENTIRE CONVERSATION CHANGES WHEN TWO WOMEN GET PHYSICAL.
Suddenly, everybody understands retaliation.
Suddenly, everybody understands consequences.
Suddenly, nobody expects unlimited patience.
WOMEN are perfectly capable of recognizing disrespect, setting boundaries, and demanding apologies from each other.
Yet women expect men to accept behavior they wouldn’t tolerate from another woman for FIVE MINUTES.
THEY understand ACCOUNTABILITY perfectly fine.
THEY just seem to FORGET WHAT it means when the person DEMANDING it is a MAN.
Have you ever watched two women argue?
Female friends. Coworkers. Sisters. Complete strangers.
HAVE YOU EVER HEARD them SAY TO ANOTHER:
“Don’t be mad at her. She’s on her period.”
“Let her disrespect you. It’s her hormones.”
“She’s stressed. Just accept her attitude.”
“She’s experiencing postpartum depression. Don’t hold her accountable.”
NO. YOU KNOW WHY?
Because when women are dealing with other women, suddenly everybody remembers that being emotional doesn’t give you permission to treat people like garbage.
“BITCH, WATCH YOUR MOUTH!”
“WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING TO?”
“FIX YOUR ATTITUDE!”
Nobody wants to hear excuses about HORMONES.
Nobody is checking her menstrual calendar before deciding whether the disrespect was ACCEPTABLE.
BUT LET THAT SAME WOMAN DISRESPECT A MAN.
Suddenly, it’s a medical conference.
“It’s her hormones.”
“It’s her period.”
“She’s overwhelmed.”
“She’s stressed.”
“She’s emotional.”
“You need to understand what women go through.”
OH, SO WHEN ITS MEN, WE NEED A BIOLOGY DEGREE TO RECOGNIZE DISRESPECT? But…
When she insults another woman, she’s being disrespectful.
When she insults a man, she’s experiencing hormonal changes.
When she screams at another woman, she needs to control herself.
When she screams at her husband, he needs to control his reaction.
When another woman refuses to tolerate her attitude, she’s standing up for herself.
BUT WHEN A MAN REFUSES TO TOLERATE IT, HE’S SUDDENLY EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE.
Do you see how ridiculous that sounds?
And here’s another interesting observation.
They love saying, “A REAL MAN WOULD NEVER HIT A WOMAN.”
Fair enough. Men shouldn’t hit women.
BUT NOTICE HOW QUICKLY THAT ENTIRE CONVERSATION CHANGES WHEN TWO WOMEN GET PHYSICAL.
Suddenly, everybody understands retaliation.
Suddenly, everybody understands consequences.
Suddenly, nobody expects unlimited patience.
WOMEN are perfectly capable of recognizing disrespect, setting boundaries, and demanding apologies from each other.
Yet women expect men to accept behavior they wouldn’t tolerate from another woman for FIVE MINUTES.
The masculine urge not to date anyone until you get your life together is fueled by an inferiority complex.
As a man, getting your life together should be your number one priority. This is non-negotiable.
But limiting yourself to dating only when you’re “well put together” is insecurity.
It makes you experience relationships only from a place of comfort.
You never get to see the challenges that come with being in a relationship when you’re in lack.
This is why I love women. They’re audacious beings.
Women go into relationships whether they have their life together or not.
Men, on the other hand, go into relationships with a provider mindset.
If guys made one of their criteria for dating a woman that she must also spend on her man, a lot of ladies would remain single.
Most ladies won't even make it past talking stage.
Should I tell you a little more about your nature ?
Even if it’s a guy you’re attracted to already, the moment he starts being ‘a nice guy’…
You gradually start losing attraction for him.
This is not a personal opinion, i’m telling you for a fact!!