No disrespect to anyone, but God please don't send me another partner who doesn't know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I don't want a partner who's still battling their own issues, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I don't want a partner who can't stand firm, speak with clarity, or take control of their own life.
no revenge, but one day you will look back and realize that, unlike everyone else, I genuinely had the purest intentions with you. Maybe someday you will understand that people like me do not come around often. You will remember how I listened when no one else cared, and how I saw the good in you even when you could not see it yourself.
You will remember how I stayed when I could have left, how I forgave when I could have been angry, and how I still wished you well even when I had every reason not to. I may not have been perfect, but I was real, and that is something not everyone can offer.
One day, when you start seeing that not everyone carries a heart like mine, it will hit you differently. You will begin to understand the kind of presence I was in your life, the kind that does not come twice.
And when that day comes, you will realize that losing me was not just losing a person, it was losing someone who only ever wanted the best for you.
Sorry, but a partner who ruins your mental health cannot be the love of your life. Ever. I know you love them. I know you've built a future in your mind with them. I know you keep hoping theyโll change, that things will get better, that the good moments will eventually outweigh the bad.
But here's the truth you need to hear: real love doesn't destroy you. Real love doesn't leave you anxious, depressed, constantly questioning yourself, walking on eggshells, or losing pieces of who you are. That's not love, that's trauma bonding.
Ateneo de Davao University fulfills one of Bobetโs dreams by granting scholarships to all of his siblings. ๐ฅบ
Maraming salamat, ADDU. Maraming salamat, Fr. Karel. โ๏ธ
Bobet, sana masaya ka ngayon. ๐ฅบ
MAY WARNING. Nagkalat ang mga signages na ito kung saan nag-training umano ang Ateneo Basketball Team.
Signages saying - unprotected beach, no lifeguards, presence of rip currents. And yet, @jessiecruzat reported the Ateneo Basketball Team trained in this area.
WHY?! Ano ang pananagutan kung meron man ng eskuwelahan at ng mga school authorities or coaches?