those videos of men being asked if they can beat a professional female sprinter, basketball player, weightlifter, etc. and confidently saying yes, only to lose and look genuinely shocked, irritate me so bad bc all these men hear is “female.” they don’t hear professional.
everyone tells me that ADHD isn't an excuse for being lazy and that there are people with ADHD who have overcome their symptoms and are successful but every day I drag around an invisible dopplegänger of myself who is horrible and listless and always complains. and he is so heavy. I'm ambitious and I'm passionate but he isn't and the problem is that to get anywhere in life I have to grab him by the leg and pull him along the whole way, kicking and screaming, and sometimes it gets exhausting. sometimes he pulls me down with him. and it gets a bit difficult to explain to people why I'm lying down on the floor in pain when they can't see him.
i genuinely believe the arirang tour will go down as one of jimin's most legendary eras. every hairstyle was completely different, and every single one deserves to be written into the history books.