Seulgi's advice on dealing with rude people is going around in Korean life advice blogs
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During a broadcast (์ฌ๊ธฐ.zip), a fan asked:
"I'm someone who doesn't really speak harshly. That's why I often just laugh it off when people are rude.
I want to fix this, but I don't know how."
Seulgi responded:
"I think being someone who doesn't speak harshly even when something bad happens isn't something you have to fix.
Rather, it's commendable proper behavior because it means you're someone who doesn't hurt even those who are rude to you.
Even so, there are often bad villains who put you down and defy you even when you respond to them gently.
There's one way to cope with those people: you have to filter them out.
However, there are also people who you couldn't ignore like friends or colleagues. What should you do with those people?
If it's someone close who you couldn't avoid, don't simply laugh it off when they're rude.
If you do that, they'll think, 'Oh, they can tolerate me this much?' 'Even if I bother them more, they won't budge'.
When you hear them being rude, keep a straight face and give them no reaction at all.
That's how they'll think: 'Oh, this person isn't a pushover'. 'If I treat them carelessly, I'll be in trouble'. That's how I set boundaries."
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