@jayhood73 Jay, you may already done this, but look at good group home programs and get him on some waitlists now. For example, Edens Autism in NJ has an excellent program.
@jayhood73 I follow you because I appreciate the challenging journey you share daily with us. I am a mostly silent follower and plan to remain so with much respect to your parenting abilities, even if we don’t agree on other topics. Peace to you from Berkeley California.