Autism exists on a spectrum, so each individual’s strengths and weaknesses can differ. When defending yourself, there’s a mature way to do so. As someone who is neurotypical, like myself and others who observed this situation, we understand that just because someone may be autistic or disabled, it doesn’t mean they should be told to leave simply because they don’t meet someone’s standards. Scotty is perfectly capable, and standing up for him doesn’t take away from that. However, Drake should have realized that his way of defending himself—with the lawyer and FBI comments—was inappropriate. The defense turned into an ongoing joke that became cruel.
While defense is often necessary, it’s the manner in which it was done here that was problematic. Given the circumstances, we expect Drake to understand and handle the situation with more maturity. It’s not about holding people to an unrealistic standard, but rather about navigating situations in a compassionate and respectful way. Empathy goes a long way in understanding how to navigate situations and conflict resolution. Simply put, walk a mile in someone else’s shoes.
I hope this helps!
@drakectoll
Stop with the Scotty B nonsense. What you all are doing with this situation is wrong on so many levels. You don’t know Scotty or his story. The stress and real pain you’re causing him is cruel. Your lack of character is clear. Scotty isn’t your content farm, and he’s not an easy target. You know exactly what you’re doing, and it’s disgusting and disappointing. Do better, and fix it.
Exactly, it was all for entertainment. Let me be clear: it’s not funny when we exploit what makes someone unique for our amusement. I’m hardly on here, but friends are texting me saying this is messed up so I had to come see for myself. The impact on him is completely different. He’s being told he’s getting sued and all this other stuff. How much clearer can I be about why I, and many others, feel this way? This goes way deeper than just the surface level. I’m not trying to ruin the “entertainment,” I’m here to stop a situation that’s much bigger. I can’t keep giving hints for people to understand, because it’s not my place to explain.
I’m not mad at yall. But we gotta do better. I don’t care or even know
About the whole “saga” between them 2. I’m just here because what was happening was wrong.
You’re really going to die on this hill? You think you can hide your intent behind “I have the right to defend myself.” But you know why you did it. It’s not my place to explain, but there’s a big reason I’m defending Scotty, and it’s my place to say. But know it’s an awful look on you. You are the definition of a grifter drake. People in the community will not forget this. Id make it right.
No, you can’t just change the definition of “banter” to suit your own benefit. Also, what you did wasn’t a defense. Was it defense, banter, or bullying? See, what I’m doing is defending Scotty. What you did was use Scotty for his reaction. It wasn’t about defending anything—it was about getting a response from him that gave you content.
@drakectoll So, what you’re calling “banter” is actually better described as bullying. You saw his reactions, and there was no sign of mutual banter, yet you all kept going, having your fun at his expense.
I’ve done the leg work for you. Do you understand?
You really need to think critically about what you’re doing. You don’t seem to understand what “banter” actually means. You might see this as harmless fun, but for Scotty, it’s not. What feels like a joke to you is causing him real stress. Banter works when both sides are in on it, but Scotty isn’t, and it’s hurting him. You’ve gone too far, and you don’t even know his story. You’re getting validation online at his expense, and it’s obvious to everyone. Stop deflecting—it’s a bad look. Don’t abuse your platform.
@drakectoll
Stop with the Scotty B nonsense. What you all are doing with this situation is wrong on so many levels. You don’t know Scotty or his story. The stress and real pain you’re causing him is cruel. Your lack of character is clear. Scotty isn’t your content farm, and he’s not an easy target. You know exactly what you’re doing, and it’s disgusting and disappointing. Do better, and fix it.