Cee

I am PHENOMENAL ...Wife to a KING and a Proud GIRL MOM….Catholic..... onye IGBO kam bu before anything else

[Cee @CeeNwali]

@sheilatebra @Richie0147 One person who needs to see this is Mr Peter Obi

[EdoQueen🌹 @EdoVibeQueen]

The main reason some of you are so desperate to know the identity of Alex Ekubo’s wife is so you can monitor her every move not because you care about her.
You want to know if she’s grieving “enough” by your standards. You want to keep tabs on what she posts, what she wears, where she goes, and who she’s seen with. Then, the moment she starts trying to live her life again, some of you will be the first to drag her and come up with the most bizarre takes imaginable.
These days, everything is content, everything is gist, and everyone feels entitled to an opinion about things that have absolutely nothing to do with them. Nothing is allowed to be personal anymore. Nothing is sacred.
Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is respect people’s boundaries.

[Ugegbe ✨ @MarinatedTurks]

Men’s maths: taking a ‘baddie’ on vacation, spending millions on material things in exchange for adventurous sexual favours, and it’s called dehumanising her.

Meanwhile, the wife at home is left struggling with the children.

Truly impressive mathematics🙂.

[David Hundeyin @DavidHundeyin]

If I wanted to maintain my current standard of living, but in Nigeria, it would cost too much to be realistic.

Nigerian prices are way too expensive in USD terms despite having such a devalued currency, and I don't understand how everyone is quiet.

That country is stupidly expensive for no reason at all🤷🏾

[Do2dtun Energy gAD @iamDo2dtun]

Celine Dion is 58 years old
Shakira is 49 years old
Beyoncé is 44
Busta Rhymes 54
Bruce Springsteen is 76
Lionel Richie is 76
The oldest Backstreet boy is 54

All of these people have one thing in common. they still sing, perform and entertain till this day.

Peter is 44 but you dimwits are so ageist that you don’t even know what you bring down in the name of clicks.

[Enyinnaya @enyinna_]

You can mock Nigerian girls all you want for lacking communication skills, but the truth is that Nigerian society is generally hostile to honest conversation.

The more Nigerians you deal with, the more you notice a pattern: people avoid saying things directly. They deflect, suppress, and sidestep difficult discussions until, seemingly out of nowhere, there's an emotional outburst.

Many of our siblings, parents, lecturers, bosses, and peers exhibit this trait to varying degrees: avoid, deflect, avoid—then suddenly, get mad.

[Cee @CeeNwali]

I like to imagine people just the way I like them…. Just being a nice person
Cause tbh, they ain’t a lot of nice people lately

[micaiah. 🇪🇨🇨🇻🇳🇴🇯🇵🇲🇽 @grayGhxst]

: e good nau shebi na you dey add everything for pot that time dey call am "sapa stew", do am again.

[Cee @CeeNwali]

@Molayoo_ Explain to me that’s a Nigerian first…. Cause I don’t understand 🧐

[Corn ✧⍣ @cornski]

they needa hang that Zack Fox tweet in a museum

[Cee @CeeNwali]

@Rauf_swago Sameeeeee😂😂

[Cee @CeeNwali]

@nzemmili @sugabelly I’m not even listening to Nigerians pov on this topic with their performative morals… it’s the westerns, for people that committed all kind of atrocities during slavery, taking out a fetus that’s not even born yet must be really triggering, especially one with Disabilities

[pagliacci the hated 🌝 @Slatzism]

The romanticization of downies is very weird to me.

“Oh they’re so happy!” Yeah because they have an IQ of 34.

People see little clips of the higher-functioning minority being cute online and then feel entitled to massively underestimate the amount of mental, social, financial, and medical resources it takes to raise them.

This isn’t helped by the fact that the parents of profoundly disabled kids often try and offset the (very valid) guilt, disappointment, and burnout they feel by frantically pretending like their lives are great because farming praise for being “good people” and righteously dunking on parents who don’t want that for themselves are the only coping mechanisms they have.

A profoundly disabled child is not a houseplant or kitten, and it isn’t a responsibility that ever ends. The vast majority of downies are not capable of obtaining even a mild degree of independence.

You will be taking care of them until the day you die (and spend the last moments of your life worrying about who will take care of them when you’re gone).

Imagine being 80 years old and still having to heat up nuggets for your 45 year old child, remind them to wash, tell them when to go to bed, etc…

Imagine not being able to do literally anything without having to consider whether or not your downie labubu can join.

Imagine never having grandchildren, or never being able to see your child go to college or get married. Fundamental experiences many look forward to, gone.

It’s not like the cute little clips in the vast majority of cases.

And this is all especially true if you have a male downie because once they hit puberty and adulthood, you now have all of the urges of a horny man trapped in the mind and body of someone with a no impulse control and superhuman retard strength.

It’s all fun and games until your 300 pound adult son who has the intellectual capacity of a turnip whips his junk out in a Walmart and starts rubbing it on the My Little Pony display (I witnessed this once, absolutely horrifying scenes).

All I’m saying is… If you want to be a downie parent - awesome. I wish you the best. I am sure there are plenty of profoundly disabled kids waiting to be adopted and you can put your money where your mouth is anytime.

But I do not blame anyone who does not want that life for themselves and, crucially, recognizes they would not be good parents in that situation.

At the very least, I respect the fact that they’re being honest, which seems to be something most people can’t do when it comes to the disabled.

[Michael Butler 🇺🇸 @MDButler81]

@Slatzism But I also think that family is getting a bit of what they deserve after posting their decision online. When you post your life online for the world to see, don't be surprised when the opinions and inevitable judgement starts to roll in.

[Cee @CeeNwali]

@Amaddream_ Bandits are now tweeting among us 😭😂

[Henry VIII @SussexHenryVIII]

My first year in case management we had an elderly woman found down at the grocery store. She was somnolent then confused. Frail. Kept mentioning a name when she finally woke up — we thought it might be a dog or cat so we called animal control.

It was her disabled son who hadn’t eaten in days, alone.

Our social nets are small and they are shrinking.

But hey, cute tractor video.

[Tarelayefa @Sugar_Pops_]

Enter a female hostel and go sit on one of the public toilets first before confidently announcing that women can’t get infections from toilets. 😂

Every time this conversation comes up, a lot of male HCPs rush to say, “There’s no such thing as a toilet infection” or “You can’t get a UTI from a toilet seat.”

The problem is that many of you hear women describing a real experience and immediately start looking for ways to dismiss it instead of trying to understand what they’re actually saying.

Women are not claiming that every toilet seat is a magical infection portal. What we’re saying is that poorly maintained public toilets can be unhygienic, can expose people to bacteria and other microorganisms, and can create conditions that increase the risk of infections (which happens often btw). Women’s anatomy also makes us more vulnerable to UTIs than men.

The bigger issue is the pattern. Women say, “This is what happened to my body,” and instead of listening, many (read male) HCPs immediately reach for a textbook to explain why the woman couldn’t possibly be right.

We’ve seen this happen repeatedly across women’s health. For years, women complained about symptoms that weren’t being taken seriously. Women with conditions like PCOS spent years describing their experiences before the medical community fully appreciated many of the metabolic aspects of the condition. Our experience with pain management is another example.

Healthcare works best when clinicians combine scientific evidence with patient experiences. The textbook matters. Research matters. But listening to patients matters too.

Women live in these bodies every day. Maybe stop assuming we’re confused every time we tell you what we’re experiencing.

[Cee @CeeNwali]

Having kids will make you realize how smalllllllll that your king size bed is 🫠

[Cee @CeeNwali]

@odogwu_ogidi I was confused for a minute 😭😂

[🦋Engr Som Som🦋 @stunner_xoxo]

I read this whole thing because she didn’t have a blue tick 😂