@THEOKINGB Okay let’s wait a bit. I remember the scene from The Ricer vividly. She was definitely putting it on and being a nuisance towards her husband. So the baby fake-crying was deliberate.
Most men say this because they can't imagine themselves willingly being decent parents, they still see it as something they'd need to be told or forced to do against their will.
i don’t mean to be deep 😭 but we do need to free ourselves and i say this as someone who used to think this way. just wear your hair, you’ll get used to how you look (like yourself)