once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. bc they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. people rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.
A pattern I've noticed in successful people..
They outgrow their old life quietly. No announcement, no drama. Just smaller circles, deeper peace, and bigger results.
you’d be surprised how being reserved attracts so much jealous energy. people think because you don’t have to make a show or be the loudest one in the room you think you’re better than them or they think you’re weak.
until they fuck around and find out.
WOMAN TO WOMAN: Put yourself FIRST….Hit the gym & actually stay consistent. Keep your nails done. Eat real food, not trash…. Do the hobbies that make you happy. Make your money…..Take the dämn vitamins. Get your 6 to 8 hours of sleep. Buy the new workout set…..Delete every distraction….Water your own grass so hard you stop giving a shxt about everybody else 🗣️💕🤞🏽
I’ll Neverrrrrrrrrr, Everrrrrrrrrrrrr forget how God stayed with me when the whole world went silent, when no one else was there, and I needed comfort the most
@Solyricon And ‘ you can’t keep a man’ and ‘ you can’t find a man’ and ‘ no man wants you ‘ , these statements are not insults you’ll think they are. Having a man or ‘keeping’ a man is not an achievement btw.
“She can’t keep a man”. It’s so easy to keep a man ya’ll. I promise. All you gotta do is allow them to lie and cheat in peace, don’t challenge their patterns, and don’t address anything they do that hurts you. You’ll keep them for years and years until they find their next toy.
I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy ! I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode ! My nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood & now I’m choosing peace, softness & stability !