Normalize outgrowing friendships and relationships naturally and just moving on, instead of forcing a connection to continue or ending it in bad blood. Sometimes people outgrow each other and I think it should be more accepting, instead of feeling like you’re obligated to stay.
Being a former people pleaser so shitty because now you gotta set boundaries thats never been established before n people think you being weird just because you’re not as accessible as before
9.30am and I am arguing with some woman on Vinted who thinks I’ve scammed her for a £3 dress because she hasn’t received it yet, I’ve sent her the tracking number for Hermes that says it’s way to her and she still called me a liar 😂🥴
You really do have to pick your circle wisely and cut off anyone who gives you even slight negative energy. Life if far to short to waste it on draining people
Self-betrayal looks like:
• Saying “yes” when you want to say “no”
• Putting the needs of others before your own
• Compromising your values to keep others comfortable
• Performing to feel loved or wanted.