I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.
It's the way I was raised and I do not want to raise my kids that way. I want them excited for them accomplishments and not necessarily trying to figure out what to do next. Bask in their moments.
It's also hard being present instead of trying to figure out the next step/stage in my life. I've done alot this year and patting myself on the back is hard as hell because I feel like I can be doing more