Y'all are terrified of initiating conversation after conflict. I'm not your mother. I'm not whatever ex that used to blow up on you. I'm an adult that wants to hear you, be heard, and heal what's happened between us. Silence is not a resolution.
And this is exactly why it’s so important to catch yourself when you realize you’re giving too much energy outward. Prioritize yourself and pour it back into you!!!!!!!!
Don't let a 10-minute problem consume a 24-hour day. The email was uncomfortable. The train was late. The conversation went poorly. Feel it, deal with it, then allow the rest of your life to remain intact.
when y’all say “braids don’t give bad bitch” or “braids don’t go with certain outfits” i automatically assume you’re anti black or have self esteem issues.
i think if there is one thing you must insist on being in this life, it is sincere. even at your expense. even at your own detriment. you just have to be sincere. there is no other way.
No one wants to hear this but sometimes it’s your fault. Your life isn’t good and it’s your fault. You made bad decisions/ choices and sadly, these are the consequences of your actions.