I grew up with the idea that the 'easy' way is always the 'wrong' way, & refusing to do something that seems tough implies that I am running away from it.
This scene in Dear Zindagi was a sigh of relief & a revelation for the younger me. I kept replaying it in my head for days!
Ngl it has been extremely vindicating to find out that there are hundreds of thousands of people like me who feel like crying when someone tries to teach them a card game