i cant deal with seeing hozier talk about the 10 year anniversary of take me to church and the neighbourhood talk about the 10 year anniversary of sweater weather and arctic monkeys talk about the 10 year anniversary of AM within one week. what do you MEAN its been a DECADE
All this pre shadow of Venus retrograde has me realizing how many people did not value me when I believed our relationship was to some extent reciprocal
boundary: “i don’t feel comfortable with this behavior bc it makes ME feel insecure. therefore *i* will have to leave bc of MY emotions and how *i* have to manage them”
not boundary: “YOU are doing stuff i don’t like so YOU have to change your behavior or it’s boundary crossing”
everybody gets to a low point in their life but you REALLY have to pay attention to the people who treat you terrible during those days specifically… they genuinely do not care about you and never did you HAVE to accept that and move on
Some people are literally not used to being loved unconditionally. They have never seen it, nor experienced it. They don’t even know how to identify it.
Some people haven’t been taken care of in this world.
So when you show up and take care of them, they almost reject it
a healer will trigger you. it’s inevitable. that’s their purpose, to trigger you into healing. to trigger your wounds to surface. to trigger you to face your own darkness. to trigger you into accepting, integrating, & loving your shadow. to trigger you to grow & evolve into your highest self. doesn’t mean they’re bringing out the worst in you. on the contrary, they’re bringing you closer to the best in you. intention & energy matter.