A lot of men will spend hours researching the perfect specs for a car or a PC, but when their relationship is struggling, they refuse to read a single book or article on emotional intelligence. They would rather let a good thing fall apart than admit they have something to learn.
most men are actually COWARDŠ when it comes to confronting their male friends about mistreating women. they value MALE APPROVAL more than women's SAFETY
if a doctor who graduated medical school says you need something, it should be illegal for someone sitting behind an insurance desk with absolutely zero medical training to deny you coverage...
Cause One: You Have Trained Your Brain to Need Novelty
1. "You have desensitized your dopamine receptors."
Even without porn, fantasy trains your brain to need novelty. Every time you imagine another woman, you strengthen the neural pathway that says "new = aroused, familiar = not aroused." You have conditioned yourself to need the excitement of the unknown. Your wife cannot be unknown. She is the same person every day. The problem is not her. The problem is your brain's expectation of novelty.
A healthy relationship or marriage is one where you feel comfortable expressing frustration, annoyance, and anger (within reason) without the other person getting up in arms in response.
If you don't have this, then you're always going to be bottling up emotions and then when they do come out, it turns into big drama.
There is a balance between this and obviously controlling yourself and wanting to be as positive as possible with the person you love, because you want them to see and experience the best of you.