Dear Males, when a girl asks you questions like this. You be honest. Better answer the truth cause the probability of her already knowing the truth is high. Quit lying or you're doomed. Trust me. I can relate. I have done this so many times and things did not end great. :)
Maka bagi aku jgn terlalu bergantung pada “asbab” dlm mencintai seorang, belajar faham yg hakikat manusia ini berubah rasa dan tidak kekal.
Tapi hakikat yg teragung adalah “Aku cinta kamu kerana Allah SWT”
Mungkin bg certain org, ayat ini cringe, tp bg aku itulah hakikat cinta.
That’s why aku ta pelik bila ada org mcm speechless, tak dpt luah (biasanya lelaki, haha) bila ditanya soalan “Kenapa kau kahwin/suka dgn dia?”
Sbb deep inside dia mmg dah suka/kahwin seseorang itu tanpa perlu terangkan asbab.
Dlm erti kata lain “Rasa cinta yg tak dpt diungkap”
..sopan santun, minat anime, layan indie dll. Andai kata suatu hari nanti pasangan anda tidak ada sbb2 tersebut, adakah anda masih mencintainya?
Bagi aku pandai masak, sopan santun semua tu adalah “ciri-ciri” yg kita nak, yg buat kita suka, selasa dll, ianya bukan “sebab”.
Kdg2 ada yg tanya dgn aku “Kenapa kau kahwin dgn dia?” atau “Kau kahwin dgn dia sebab apa?”
Jawapan aku mudah
“Takde sebab, hakikatnya mmg aku nak kahwin dgn dia” haha
Kerana bagi aku kalau kita kahwin/suka seseorang itu “bersebab”, contohnya dia cantik/kacak, pandai masak..
Story Time. The Stalking & Sexual Harassment case of 8 years.
1.I always wanted to share about wonderful things & stories from the world. Unfortunately today I have to share about something utterly disgusting. Even more unfortunate, it’s happening to me.
Makan steamboat paling murah hanya RM37 seorang. Boleh makan puas-puas sampai lebam. Sedap pulak tu.
Berbaloi teruks.
📍Asap Steamboat & Grill, Puchong
post kahwin feeling;
- always tired
- missing husband 24/7 at work
- prefers homecook than take outs
- still wanna work harder but all
above makes you wanna be at home
- ur mom who used to yell at u all the time is now ur bestie