the more i learn about avoidant attached people the more i feel bad for them. imagine having so much to say to someone you love, yet no way to say it because vulnerability and intimacy don’t feel safe.
I will NEVER forget the two weeks following my Dad passing. We had food and folks in every damn corner of our house! My friends literally had to come and get me just so I could get a second to breathe and just sit in quiet.
about your body
about your lifestyle
about your hair
about your wardrobe
about your career
about your hobbies
about your goals
about your sexuality
about your relationship orientation
about your needs
and ESPECIALLY about your boundaries