Neurodivergent women need quality alone time. To be weird. To dance or sing in her room. To unmask and recharge in whatever neurospicy way she pleases. There can be severe consequences like burnout, chronic illness, and poor coping mechanisms when she doesn’t do this.
People respect you more when they don't see you often. Even parents. Trust me. It's strange how distance rearranges love, how absence restores what closeness erodes. When people are deprived of your presence, they start seeing you clearly again, not through habit but through awareness. Proximity dulls perception. Space sharpens it. That's just how the human mind works.
I'm really no longer interested in softening my rough edges for anyone. The world is literally spiraling and ya'll worried about if someone thinks you are too forward, too earnest or too blunt. I lost so many years trying to make losers feel comfortable.
I couldn’t care less about the Knicks. I just wish people brought the same passion, attention, and urgency to defending their rights and challenging the systems that profit from their silence.
Reading books isn’t practice of information & that’s why I’ll always laugh when someone thinks ‘text’ is a stronger reality than experience of said ‘text’.
It is in the text because it is real but it is also challenged by the text as, whose to say what was real didn’t transform?
If I am capable of questioning text & live by the point of history that is dismountable, then that becomes a threat to those addicted to information over applying it in real time.
I want so badly for someone to tell me, yes this okay, this where you're needed but I know that has to come from me. I feel like I'm fighting myself sometimes.
Many of my energy practitioners told me, I must still do this "grunt" work... but I'm dreading it.
@ladyis__ Nah that's weird. Why she know savannahs name?? And why did she have to ask "multiple" times?? She didn't trust him herself either and still she did it.
Yes what he did was shitty. But we need to start taking accountability as women too.
I haven't been 100 days sober since I started drinking. I am so proud of myself. I started drinking at 18 and now I'm 32. It may not seem like a lot and I wasn't letting it destroy me but to be able to tell myself no has been such a gift. 💛