The real goldiggers are the men who expect you to take care of them, clean their house, wash and iron their clothes, give birth to their children, manage their emotions, and on top of that go to work and contribute 50/50 to the expenses.
Marry a man who's a provider. That doesn't necessarily mean that he has alot of money. It means he knows his responsibilities. He'll make mountains move just so your needs are met. A responsible man is better than a rich man who doesn't value you.
Women are asking for more Bc women are doing more. I’m not interested just in how you can take care of me, if I’m already taking care of me. What is your character that will make me want to give you my time? What is your character that I can trust you to build something with me?
no grown ass woman wants to be in a relationship with a man that don’t plan no dates , no flowers , no quality time , no communication, no reassurance JUST NOTHING AT ALL !!! but they expect you to cook , clean , & fulfill their sexual needs OH FUCKING PLEASE !!!!
Men with low-self esteem run to
multiple women.. they need the immediate validation that they're the victim or need the feeling of being wanted. Anything to keep their narrative alive and heard. Bashing the other party and seeking that validation.
being cheated on while pregnant is a pain i can’t even explain, i don’t know how im supposed to move past it. i think im over it and the emotions come back and i feel completely useless.