I've felt that and gotten left quiet for months. It gives off my request and descriptions aren't worth a damn. Then I see others' get done in days and when I ask for updates they either ghost me or say it's been done.
(Spoiler: nothing gets "done" unless I step in)
Noticing a lot of artists have this weird mindset of taking as long as they want with their commissions because they think their client is inferior for not being the one drawing