I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so weird – it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re actually just respecting your own feelings, bcoz you’re so used to putting other people's feelings first.
If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, just know how hard it was for me. I have a habit of holding onto the little bit of good in people & giving too many chances. So if I don’t fw you anymore, it’s bcoz you pushed me past my limits — but when I'm done, I'm done