getting cheated on & not knowing you getting cheated on will change you. getting lied to & not knowing you’re getting lied to will change you. Getting done any kind of way that ain’t right will change you. I commend people that can just not care or stay overly sweet after people continue to hurt them & let them down fr. Hurt makes you angry, triggered, annoyed, a change your attitude fr. Cause, you really didn’t have to do me that. & you really played me so good to the point I couldn’t even see through you.
unfortunately, i thought the more i stayed, you would realize how i wanted us to work so bad but that just increased your ego and made it easier for you to disrespect me
People that continue to lie even after they’ve been caught really make me look at them differently. They’re so committed to protecting the lie that they would rather lose you completely than experience the discomfort of accountability and honesty. That’s scary.
& PLEASE miss me with that “you insecure” shit 😭 shouldn’t no man in a relationship be entertaining exes, women who want him, women he used to fw, or anybody he had feelings for. That’s not insecurity… that’s called BOUNDARIES and self respect 💯🗣️
Men are always going to show you how they *really* feel about you on the days that matter. Like your birthday, Mother’s Day, Christmas, Valentine’s Day, etc.
I don’t wanna check phones, stalk pages, or ask a million questions just to feel secure. A ngga who love you don’t put you in positions where you gotta play detective. If I gotta watch you, I don’t want you.
A cheating MAN hurts, but a manipulative LIAR is worse. At least cheating becomes clear one day. But this kind of MAN LIES easily, twists everything, and makes you doubt yourself and your reality.
My favorite part of resurrection is when they went back and didn’t find Jesus where they left him!! Don’t let NOBODY find you where they left you. Elevate! He got up! You can too! Nothing is too hard for my God!