I don’t hear from ppl unless they wanna vent, borrow , be messy or a special day coming up 😂😂 that’s why I don’t answer , don’t care , don’t have , don’t know , & won’t attend
I remember someone saying they buy gifts for both of their kids on the others birthday, so no feels left out & that’s another mf problem I got. Not teaching your kids that everything won’t always be for or about them. & learning how to celebrate others!