Was when he said I wasn't really his spec, but I'm from a good family, and his mom approves of me, so he's willing to try, but he has rules.
My shock was shocked.
If I had opened my mouth to say a word, I'd have cried.
Anyways, I blocked him before leaving the place.
@the_ideals@CraigMealy@Jaramilliions@hewantswealth Of course it’s a defence mechanism! It doesn’t mean that all men are like that but whether you like it or not a mans proof of love is by his provision (not only money) and a woman’s proof of love is by her submission. When a man cannot do for his woman alot of frustration enters
@Jaramilliions@hewantswealth You’re right! I do agree a man doesn’t need to be rich. But the question is can a man earning less than his woman truly feel secure in the relationship? A lot of men don’t like a woman that is more financially capable than them. It can sometimes lead to a Mother and son dynamic.
@CraigMealy@Jaramilliions@hewantswealth Lool nooo, but a man that isn’t secure about his finances will make you miserable. It is very hard to find a man that is truly happy earning a lower income than his woman and doesn’t get jealous of the life she can provide for herself. The jealousy can come out in various ways
@Solomon_Buchi You wouldn’t tell a man from a family with no education to not pursue education or create a family with a good educational background would you? Your problem is money, just be frank Lampard on the situation.
@Solomon_Buchi Such a backward and stagnant mentality. Daughters of rich men still date and marry men from poorer backgrounds. Daughters from poorer backgrounds may want better for themselves and their children. It all depends on your need. Stop trying to box women.
@Jaramilliions@hewantswealth It’s better to be alone than to be with somebody that won’t make you fulfilled and happy. Men should go for their level and whom they can satisfy
@Jaramilliions@hewantswealth No she doesn’t! It might take a bit longer but she doesn’t need to settle. 40k is not enough for her and her life! Simple.
Random, but I really don’t care how much money you have or who you think you are (girl or guy) - I will ALWAYS remember my experience with you and how you made me feel during our friendship or relationship. This is why with some ships I never look back when it’s done
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