@Cocoismelanin @Ifedaayoo Why don’t you continue the conversation? . Your obvious method of dragging didn’t change anything, maybe time to switch tactics. Educating your male friends ≠dragging them learn the difference before you come to the tl .
@Cocoismelanin @Ifedaayoo While I don’t endorse , the not all men arguement @ifedayoo, I feel that this whole movement is to make everyone uncomfortable with the rape culture concepts that we’ve been raised with , a lot of us have not been educated on consent and sex especially in the Nigerian society.
@Cocoismelanin @Ifedaayoo@ifedayoo Unfortunately we have to teach people on the tl , so I feel it’s okay to be uncomfortable because no one ever changes in their comfort zone . That discomfort is going to shut down conversations that promote rape culture and will go a long way help men in checking their behavior
They said we should not fornicate , how can we travel to see a guy and be raped ?? We stayed at home ,went to church and still got raped. #JusticeForUwa. We are not the problem.
This morning I've read 2 stories about assault.
1. a 12 year old girl was raped by 11 men in Jigawa state
2. a 22 year old woman, Uwa, was raped and brutally murdered in a church in Benin.
Women and girls are not safe anywhere.
This Tife and Sansa thing is just busting my brain. How insensitive and aloof can you be that the girl is crying and you don’t stop to ask her what is wrong and if she’ll like to continue . Something that’s supposed to be pleasurable . Sir please examine yourself well.
Can we PLEASE normalize putting our FRIENDS in their place, and letting them know that their behavior & actions aren’t ALWAYS RIGHT! Y’all be gassing y’all’s friends up , just to let them drive right down the wrong path. 🌚