So many ppl dying in they 30s from heart attacks. Ppl are stressed the fuck out. This shit is real. Shallow breathing & deadlines & worklife & relationship & bills & pressure & just being grossly mishandled. Nasty
Girl to girl… being a provider isn’t about how much money he spends. It’s about how naturally he wants to make your life easier through effort, consistency, time, care, and responsibility.
i really think it's just as important to be a leaver, as it is to be a lover. When people feel like you'll tolerate anything they throw your way they think they can do anything they want. Master the art of loving yourself enough to walk away from situations that don't serve you.
Never teach a man how to be your man. Don't ask him for anything. Not a date. Not flowers. Not clingy texts. Not morning calls. Not time. Not affection. When a man truly wants you, he moves different on his own. Life is too short to be waiting for someone to act right!
I used to be big on addressing stuff because I felt like communication would fix things. But it's so draining now. Let people be who they are and move on.
honeyyyyy... there's so many things i tolerated, that i'll never tolerate again. so many things i've done, that i'll never do again. but, that's the beautiful thing about growth... you truly wake up one day and you are over it
Let him be. If he doesn’t wanna reply to your text for hours, LET HIM. If he doesn’t wanna hang out or make plans with you, LET HIM. A man will do what a man wants to do. If he wanted to put in the effort to talk to you, see you, be with you, he would.
this is why i’ve always said marry a soft spoken man. a man who won’t disrespect you when there’s misunderstandings and fall outs, he knows to distance and stay silent during anger, a man who still has the same level of respect and love during bad terms