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women,
4 weeks breakdown every month...
one week for Premenstrual symptoms
next week, period pain
next week, ovulation pain
next week, little rest
next week, another Premenstrual symptoms...
ladies and gentlemen, women!😭♥️♥️👏👏👏
A society and family without strong men and leadership will collapse
I think God placed a huge burden on men and they don’t even realize it
This is why I can never drag headship with a man
You will never find me in the camp of women arguing that a woman can be a man
I think it’s the hardest Job in the world and i am not cut out for it nor do i covet it
Let’s go to school tonight shall we?
Statistically, women make up more than 60% of church attendees
So more than half of the people min church are women already. Then more than half of the programs organized in church is to groom women for marriage
So imagine one side of the coin being more shaped than the other
Women are more self aware
More emotionally intelligent
More groomed for motherhood
They read more books about family
Learn to cook and clean and be home makers
While male counterparts feel like as long as they go to work and come back, donate semen, they are doing great
A lot of you grew up without even being emotionally connected to your father because your dad was great in providing but not being able to communicate or even understand you
You would always go to your mum to ask questions, or to make requests
Because mummy knew how to be a parent
I and a few others are part of those who had a father that was a parent
My father was full of the Holyghost but our shelves at home were full of books on parenting and fatherhood
Because my father knew that being a great father was not imparted automatically
You needed to learn it. And boy did he learn his
So before you start huffing and puffing brothers, I’m on your side. Your job is hard but it so pivotal for the family.
God made you heads and leaders and your role in the home cannot be overemphasized
I’m advocating for more leadership and accountability from you because if you get it right, I believe the women and children will be so much better for it
So calm down sirs
Blessings
PS: no where in the last post did I say that submission was conditional.
Have you noticed that your brain starts working again when you leave your desk and take a walk?
It’s not a coincidence. Movement increases blood flow to the brain and can help with creativity and focus. In fact, some famous thinkers were known for walking while thinking. So if you’ve been staring at that laptop for too long, close it and trek small!
Understood?
God wey help you when you dey do admission , can still help you in getting a job. If he has done it before, he will do it again.
There’s nothing too big or too small to trust God for. What is that thing that’s troubling your mind? Take it to God.
As a parent you shouldn't be telling your kids that you sacrificed your life for them, It’s hurtful and manipulative, and it’s not true. You chose to have your kids and nobody forced you to have them. Taking care of them is your responsibility.
You're allowed to change your opinion if you learn something new that challenges your old opinion.
Holding to old opinions in the face of superior intelligence is not a sign of intelligence.
Can we normalize the fact that your relationship with God
doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s?
Some people journal.
Some people pace and pray out loud.
Some people worship through music.
Some people sit in silence.
Some people talk to Him like He’s sitting across the table.
There’s no wrong method.
There’s just connection.
And He honors all of it.
How do you connect with God in a way that’s uniquely yours?
i don't have OCD, but I clean a lot. don't visit me and scatter my house. my kitchen is like this 99% of the time... even if I'm dead tired.
if I cook, I must wash immediately. I hate dishwashers. I never use mine.
I clean the walls, oven, everywhere. this is why I enjoyed my bachelorhood life.
I want you ladies to understand that not all ladies are feminine to the core. Some ladies are not girlie girls who do the soft girl aesthetics and stuff. They are the categories of ladies who can repair generator, fly fence, kill snakes, weed the house with cutlass and hoes, change sockets and bulbs, enter tanks and wash it, climb ladders, do carpentry work around the house and very unconventional girl-like activities and YES, THEY ARE GIRLS too.
These are the exact sects that do not see anything wrong with turning up for their male friends that way and it's okay.