A woman helps a man grow like a child helps a woman grow.
A man helps a woman grow like a mentor helps a student grow.
Men and women help each other grow, but not in the same way.
A woman helps a man grow by forcing him to improve from within in order to meet the challenge she represents.
A man helps a woman grow by guiding her understanding of things and enriching her perception of reality.
This, by the way, is why women so often fall in love with their professors, mentors, bosses etc - whilst the inverse is markedly rarer.
Implicit to teaching is dominance, authority, status, leadership - all things women find attractive in men, but men don't really seek in women.
The parent-child relationship is mirrored by the mentor-student relationship and the husband-wife relationship.
These things are not identical, but they share a large number of parallels that map onto each other very well.
If you want a woman to love you, be her teacher.
She will care what you think. She will respect and look up to you. She will trust your opinion, and take it seriously.
Just like she would her father, or her husband.
In the same breath: be careful who you allow to teach her.
On Thursday, 24th of July 2026, I was recognized and awarded as the best graduating student from the faculty of pharmaceutical sciences and also the overall best graduating student at the University of Nigeria, Nsukka 55th Convocation Ceremony with a CGPA of 4.95
- Question A;
The Woman a Man likes taking out the most vs The Woman he likes being with indoors.
Who does he love more ?
- Question B;
The Man a Woman likes being outside with the Most vs The Man a Woman likes being with indoors in his/her bedroom.
Who does she love more ?