Tiping your office security N1k for buying your lunch, is not you doing him a favour. He earned it. If e easy, stand up from your seat and go get the food yourself. Calculate the financial cost of the stress of going the distance to get the food and back.
If you want to do him a favour, give him money for no reason. Someone would do you a favour, but you would see yourslf as the one doing them a favour because you earn higher than them and don't respect them.
If you send money to your colleague that does the same work with you and asked them to please get you lunch on their way back from wherever they were going, you see it as them doing you a favour because you respect them. You don't see it as a favour done to you when it is done by the office security or cleaner because you don't respect them. If you treat these people well and respect them, they will be happy to do things for you. You've become entitled to their help that you now expect them to use their money to fund your lunch.
My security does errands for me, and every errand comes with a tip. That is thank you for doing this because it is not his job. Favour is when I give him money for no reason which happens often or when he has special needs and makes a request and I give him money. You need to start respecting people as human beings, not by how much they earn. This thing is a common problem in our society.
Dear social media money bags, that money lying dormant in your account, waiting to be used to encourage bad behavior, platform cyberspace hooliganism and gutter behavior and paint a false picture of philanthropy for you, kindly have a rethink.
Visit hospitals and pay medical bills for the many helpless people in there who cannot afford to pay/complete their bills.
Also, keep checking on and taking care of your loved ones who need your help as charity begins at home.
This is much more valuable before creation than performative philanthropy and hypocritical firepower.
That which you do genuinely unto your fellow man, that do you do unto the Almighty.
Foreign companies would come to Nigeria be running a program that pays workers and contractors well and as and when due. The moment they believe they established a stable system in Nigeria and hand over supervisory authority to Nigerians, BOOM!
Everything starts having hiccups. Everything delayed or entirely stopped. Employment of genuine experts die.
Who do you know or who sent you, starts. Everything starts to die.
Like government like peoples.