The HIV, HPV, AIDS, Herpes, & Chlamydia rate is way too damn high to be having hoes, side pieces, and unprotected sex with random people just cause you're "horny". Sex requires TRUST. You're trusting another individual with your body, and essentially your life.
The gay community doesn’t have a masculinity problem. It has an authenticity problem. Too many people are performing a version of themselves they think is desirable.